People say ,"when life offers lemons,make lemonade". OK point taken,but what do u make out of life when it springs out unpleasant surprises & strange situations?
I am not here to crib about mundane events of our monotonous lives,I know no one is interested to read this. But strangely enough,off late for reasons best unknown to me,people with whom i shared affable aquaintanceship (at leat I thought so) have showered me with indifference. But the strangest part is, they are not the people with whom i meet everyday,I talk everyday or about whom I gossip everyday. They may be thousands of miles away from me,yet they have made their behaviour obvious for me to pen my feelings in this blog.I am not upset,or angry,or sad or anything else. I am just blank as I fail to understand the reason behind such odd behaviour without even meeting/speaking for a long long time.We all being part of civilized society know very well that a problem can only be solved if discussed. I understand not everybody i meet in my life will love me,rather out of 100 I meet,only 1 may like me.But my point is,why do people suddenly decide that they do not want to continue being friendly with a certain individual? As if they see some demons coming in their dreams and warning them not to keep the relation going.
No one is perfect in the world,we all have shortcomings but we accept everybody else with their shortcomings so that the journey of life gets easier,so that we are not alone in this big bad world,so that we have people around us when we need them the most. Then why to some people behave in entirely opposite manner?
I don't know if this happens with others too,or I am the chosen one....but at times when we retrospect our life we seek answers to these questions. The more I think,the less I seem to comprehend the strange weird behaviour of certain people.
Is it insecurity,competitive feelings,jealousy or plain mean mindedness is difficult for me to answer.
But i just wanna reaffirm one point to those people,that however hard u might try, u cannot change anybody else's destiny. The share of pain,the share of happiness,the share of love that we all are destined to get cannot be lessened by this sort of behavior...
But yes, I would oneday like to know the answers to my questions to satisfy my restrospection.
I am not here to crib about mundane events of our monotonous lives,I know no one is interested to read this. But strangely enough,off late for reasons best unknown to me,people with whom i shared affable aquaintanceship (at leat I thought so) have showered me with indifference. But the strangest part is, they are not the people with whom i meet everyday,I talk everyday or about whom I gossip everyday. They may be thousands of miles away from me,yet they have made their behaviour obvious for me to pen my feelings in this blog.I am not upset,or angry,or sad or anything else. I am just blank as I fail to understand the reason behind such odd behaviour without even meeting/speaking for a long long time.We all being part of civilized society know very well that a problem can only be solved if discussed. I understand not everybody i meet in my life will love me,rather out of 100 I meet,only 1 may like me.But my point is,why do people suddenly decide that they do not want to continue being friendly with a certain individual? As if they see some demons coming in their dreams and warning them not to keep the relation going.
No one is perfect in the world,we all have shortcomings but we accept everybody else with their shortcomings so that the journey of life gets easier,so that we are not alone in this big bad world,so that we have people around us when we need them the most. Then why to some people behave in entirely opposite manner?
I don't know if this happens with others too,or I am the chosen one....but at times when we retrospect our life we seek answers to these questions. The more I think,the less I seem to comprehend the strange weird behaviour of certain people.
Is it insecurity,competitive feelings,jealousy or plain mean mindedness is difficult for me to answer.
But i just wanna reaffirm one point to those people,that however hard u might try, u cannot change anybody else's destiny. The share of pain,the share of happiness,the share of love that we all are destined to get cannot be lessened by this sort of behavior...
But yes, I would oneday like to know the answers to my questions to satisfy my restrospection.
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