These two words are almost synonymous with break ups,moving on, forgetting the past and so on. But we do not realize that in everyday life we "let go" of so many situations, so many people, so many circumstances just to hold on a relation. We think that's the best thing to do. We fear that if we don't, it might harm a relationship, it might be detrimental and so on. We know it's not easy because the pain inflicted on us lingers even if try to forget the damage they caused. The emotional turmoil disturbs us even after we let go of their mistakes, but we continue to compromise day after day. But have we ever thought what good it does to us? If a friendship or a relationship is alive only because you chose it to keep alive by forgetting and forgiving does it really feel like a genuine friendship/relationship? We always think that we cannot survive if friends leave us or someone goes away from our lives, but the truth is we can. When ingenuity forms the base of something, it’s better that it stops existing rather than being kept alive and it continues to pain us time and again. Yes true momentarily it will cause heartbreak will make us feel alone in this big bad world but having fake relations is way worse than not having it. and everybody will agree with me on this. So let's not "let go" to keep an ailing relation alive, rather let's let go of the fake relation which is causing pain.
When you achieve something worth celebrating or being happy about but people who you think matter to you are indifferent to your success or hesitate to be part of your celebrations, it's time to let go
When people around you put on a big fake smile forgetting that you know how their real smile looks like and appear hollow it's time to let go.
When you feel downgraded by people whom you trust, it's time to let go
When you feel you lack support from those quarters where you expected the most, it's time to let go
When you feel you hold less importance in someone's life than what it should be, it's time to let go
When you are the one who always gives and no one cares to return, it's time to let go
When all you get from people around you is negativity, it's time to let go
When your pain does not bother them in any way, it's time to let go
When you feel that you are taken for granted, it's time to let go
When you feel you are being ignored, it’s time to let go
